Tuesday, September 7, 2010

There is deep wisdom within ourselves.

Everyone needs a change in their life at one point or another for various different reasons. But what happens when you truly need to say “Enough is enough. I need to change for me” You start to focus on the change you want to see in yourself and if you dig deep enough all of a sudden things become clear, very, very clear. For some of us there comes a point where we, honor a part of our life with unconditional love for the memory or you let go of the pain, possibly both in the same breath and then need to shut the door on that part of our life. It takes the pain away enough to move on. You look deep deep inside of yourself and realize that we knew all along that we had the answers. It becomes so obviously clear that all the answers were buried within ourselves. We run around asking all the right questions, asking everyone that will listen. Everyone has an answer or an opinion. Even those we don’t ask, chime in quickly but we never ever seem to go to the one person you can trust the most in this world. Not your mother or father, sister or brother, or best friend… ourselves. If you are honestly wanting change, look deep inside yourself. The answers might be raw. They might hurt but you will get over it, we always seem to in the end. What you also may find is a whole new life. A life that starts from ground zero right where you are now and can only get better. You will find that you CAN trust yourself, you can move on, you can walk and stand tall with your head held high. There are some people who may not agree and you may have to walk away from them. They can sit in the back seat of your life from then on and just watch. Others will not only agree but will stand behind or walk next to you holding your hand. In any case, the change is about you and no one else. It will liberate you and strengthen you. The only thing we have to watch out for is when we give energy to the why. Stop focusing on the past. I changed because… or, I did it this way because in the past …. if every time you qualify a positive change with giving energy to a negative past you are still allowing to take energy. You are still allowing it in your presence, you are STILL allowing it. No justification is needed. You simply changed for the good of you. You have moved on. No one need know why. The only one that needs to know is you. You be your own truth, your own authentic self. Stand tall in your own true character, self awareness and truth!! Think about it and try looking to yourself for your answers, you’ll be amazed at what a wonderful person you have waiting to let out and help you along your path to fulfillment.
Make it a great day and Keep the Faith.
Shi

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